Assalamualaikum
Lady's first budaya western? Hahah.. Let me tell you, konsep lady's first ni memang patut gentlemen kat Malaysia ni apply. Why? Hahahah.. Guys, even in Islam we're practice the concept of lady's first.
Rasulullah (peace be upon him) mentioned 'mother' three times when he was asked who is our priority. - LADY'S FIRST
Saidina Khadijah adalah orang pertama yang memeluk Islam semasa penyebaran Islam oleh Rasulullah SAW. - LADY'S FIRST
Ibu adalah orang pertama yang memberi kita makan. - LADY'S FIRST
Guys, maksud lady's first ni bukanlah mendahulukan perempuan dari segala aspek. Lady's first yang aku maksudkan is when you respect them, treat them nicely, have right to voice out their opinion.
By practice LADY'S FIRST doesn't make you less handsome, but it will make you much more handsome and tough in the eyes of us, girl and be our lady's choice. :)